SELF, SELFIE, SELF LOVE

"Win your self, you have won the world".

      This famous quote is said by Gandhiji and it is one of the most powerful things in every body 's life. One's own self is only such a thing that it remains with himself or herself from birth to death. Self is connected with our soul and it is also connected with supreme soul it means God. Thus, self is a part of our subconscious mind. Self is also linked with sixth sense. A person's self always guides truth. It's very difficult to win a human's own self. Self is absolutely realistic and neutral part of our soul. If anyone wants to win himself or herself , he or she has to pass through four steps self identity, self love, self management and self presentation.  The first and the most important priority is self identity.

.                 Self identity is itself a very deep matter. 

                Anybody's name, his or her looks, he or she goes to school or office etc.is not his or her true identity. According to J. Krishnamurthy this every thing is given by others to a person. As him any human has to develop deep understanding towards him or herself and self acceptance is the best way for it. If you're ugly or beautiful, cruel or kind, skilled or unskilled, accept as you are whatever it is. By taking knowledge of self acceptance and understanding you will begin to develop self love. Every one also should get knowledge of perfection that nobody is perfect in this world. Proper and perfect understanding and identity of a person create self confidence. It is true self confidence in which a man knows about his specialists and defects both. Though he or she has trust to overcome his or her defects by his or specialities, he or she doesn't afraid of failures and mistakes in work. It's actually self confidence. Thus, self confidence and self understanding create self love. 

.           Many obstacles come inthe way for development of self love. Lack of self confidence is the biggest obstacle. Because of less or very less confidence a man thinks what other people think about him or herself and how they react to him or her. 

             Osho said, "Sabse bada rog, kya kahenge log?" 

             This is very harmful for self love. Other people think about you or react about yourself, their opinions are made by their attitudes. So it doesn't matter. Your self image  on them also works for it. You can change it if you believe in yourself. If self image is improved, every thing is changed. This needs self confidence. Second thing value yourself and don't underestimate your self ordinary ever in life. If you don't value yourself as the most important person, nobody value yourself as important person.  

                 Here we are discussing about self love so my mind strikes about selfie. Selfie is in trend a lot nowadays. Have you ever thought why people love to take selfie?

                

               Answer is every body loves him or her self knowingly or unknowingly. So every guy loves selfie photo more than anything else.  We should check out that our self love is true or not. Especially many teens and youngsters love a lot selfie. They also do many different expressions while taking selfies. Some boys and girls pout too. When self love has been too much, it's harmful too. 

               Many teens and youngsters have lost their lives for craziness to take selfies. Some have lost their lives on railway tracks, some have lost on beaches, falling from high mountains etc. These incidents suggest that over self love invites deaths. Over self love also invites mental disorder too. So love your self enough what you need. Don't fall in aashiqui with your self. 

              Here self management is very important factor to develop for controlling emotions. After self love, self respect is the most important factor.  Anyone must have self respect in his or her life. If you want people respect you, you first develop respect for your self. You should have felt your insult on any occasion. You should think about your self respect at that time.  

 "Self respect is an ornament for any teacher." Here let me remind you that it is applicable for any person. If you have lost your self respect, you have lost everything in life. A man who has self respect he or she is beyond other people's respect or insult.  Every one wants self respect in life from a little child to any old man.  I think it's the best state of mind  for ourselves Na samman ka moh, na apmaan ka dar, Besharam. But it's rarely possible.  

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